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	We don't know your partner sexually, so how can we answer this? – Flimzy Nov 30 '14 at 1:55
	@Flimzy while I agree it's not a great question, it can be worded better e.g. "Can I help my partner reach orgasm during the intercourse by talking to her?" which is a fair question in my opinion. – Shadow Wizard Nov 30 '14 at 7:30
	@flimzy lol, idk wassup, but if that's what you mean, then nobody can answer a question about sex and intimacy for anybody unless they know the questioner sexually or his/her partner sexually .. or is it that i don't still get it? maybe i don't. i think im goin to opt out. im just loosing reps..lol – Elltz Nov 30 '14 at 14:58
	There are ways to ask questions about sex and intimacy that don't make them so intimately personal. "How can can talking during sex positively affect a woman's orgasm?" might be an example. – Flimzy Dec 1 '14 at 0:20

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added by snot waffle Nov 29 '14 at 23:56

closed as off topic by Flimzy, Shadow Wizard, Robert Cartaino Dec 1 '14 at 13:39

This question does not relate to the topic of the proposal.

To find out, simply ask a question about fetishes. This question would belong on the Meta version of the site, so it's not appropriate here. – Flimzy Nov 30 '14 at 1:59

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added by dsolimano Nov 27 '14 at 16:44

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added by Supuhstar Nov 24 '14 at 17:23

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added by Supuhstar Nov 24 '14 at 17:21

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added by Elltz Nov 21 '14 at 13:33

This is 5 distinct questions x 3.5 billion women in the world x "how do you define effect?" Far too broad. – Flimzy Nov 30 '14 at 1:56

i think this is a good qustn- btw, so you are sayin i shud rather ask 5 different questions just 2 reduce its scope? and "how do you define effect?" - bro, i think we are talkin about sex and intimacy, right? and "has an effect in sex" , so could be anything that happens during sex, how broad is this sir? im not saying ur opinion is bad, is great, but i think, all this questions is asking for is beautifying sex and making it welcomed to anyone at anytime..but its all good.. @Flimzy – Elltz Nov 30 '14 at 14:51

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added by Elltz Nov 21 '14 at 13:27

	why the downvote?? care to share? – Elltz Nov 21 '14 at 19:32
	Not me, but it is worded poorly. "get laid" is a slang for one, not something we expect in a Stack Exchange site. Worded properly, this might be a fair question indeed. (e.g. "How can I use sexting/sex talks to get more or better sex?") – Shadow Wizard Nov 23 '14 at 14:44

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added by slikkd Nov 20 '14 at 19:22

You are making an assumption here, which many would disagree with (that masturbation is not healthy) - this would move the focus away from the real question and attract off topic answers about the (what others might treat as) false statement. – Shadow Wizard Nov 23 '14 at 14:46

if that seems off-topic, when the "Sex and Intimacy" site has gone live and joined the other sites, "Masturbation" can be added as a tag so that answers won't be off-topic. – slikkd Nov 25 '14 at 8:53

@Saeed the question is not off topic. What I mean is that it would likely draw answers like "masturbation is not unhealthy", which is not what you ask for. – Shadow Wizard Nov 26 '14 at 22:10

well there are some proven facts that ensure that it is unhealthy and advantages are either little or not important comparing to these: 1.It can cause sperm disability which leads to abnormal children. 2.Masturbation makes the penis or dick to get weak when been used in the body of a woman. 3.Masturbation makes a penis to develop too many vein thereby making it unattractive. 4.Masturbation causes infections in females. 5.Masturbation weaken the hormone responsible in producing sperm. 6.Masturbation makes a man moan,suffer and starve for real sex during the period of masturbating. and.. more. – slikkd Nov 27 '14 at 13:58

Point proven. (I will not comment anymore) – Shadow Wizard Nov 27 '14 at 22:11

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added by Shadow Wizard Nov 19 '14 at 12:09

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added by anoniim Nov 14 '14 at 12:09

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added by Nerrolken Nov 14 '14 at 1:15

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added by BradleyDotNET Nov 6 '14 at 23:05

I feel compelled to mention that depending on untying knots as a safety measure in this scenario is NOT a safe choice. Can you rephrase the question to ask for the safety considerations during bondage, rather than types of knots? – James Jenkins Nov 8 '14 at 21:12

@James Jenkins; That sounds like a different (but related) question. Perhaps I should word this one differently. – BradleyDotNET Nov 8 '14 at 21:58

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added by Karasu Nov 11 '14 at 14:16

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added by Karasu Nov 11 '14 at 13:45

This might be too broad, there are way too many types of toys and different materials for each. – Shadow Wizard Nov 27 '14 at 9:00

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added by pacoverflow Nov 10 '14 at 7:36

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added by Nerrolken Nov 3 '14 at 23:21

There are 7.125 billion correct answers to this question. – Flimzy Nov 30 '14 at 1:54

There are 7.125 billion answers to what feels best, but there could easily be a more precise answer from a biological, "number of nerve endings" sort of angle. I don't actually know, (it's not just an example question, it's a genuine curiosity of mine), but even if not, "it's different for everyone and there is no rule" would be an acceptable answer. – Nerrolken Dec 1 '14 at 17:11

@Flimzy how so? He is talking about things like nipples, which for many can become erogenous zone. Not too broad, however it's not really possible to give accurate answer since each person is sensitive in different parts. All in all, fair sample question in my opinion. – Shadow Wizard Dec 3 '14 at 11:07

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added by Nerrolken Nov 3 '14 at 23:20

Attraction can change. Reduction and increase of attraction to different real partners is to be expected, so you're asking about one part of a big problem. – Karasu Nov 11 '14 at 13:41

True, but asking about the whole problem would probably be too broad. There have been plenty of studies on this topic to allow for objective, informative answers, and it's exactly the kind of thing that people would want to use this section to ask. Thus, example question. :) – Nerrolken Nov 11 '14 at 17:04

This should probably be two questions. But +1 anyway. – Flimzy Nov 30 '14 at 1:51

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added by Nerrolken Nov 3 '14 at 23:17

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added by pacoverflow Nov 2 '14 at 7:19

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added by Krumia Oct 29 '14 at 3:17

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added by Krumia Oct 22 '14 at 9:22

Semi-dupe of this one. – Shadow Wizard Oct 22 '14 at 13:22

@ShadowWizard: Yup. But different proposal. I am pretty sure this is on topic and original here. :) – Krumia Oct 23 '14 at 3:06

Sure thing, after all both proposals are intertwined in many ways. – Shadow Wizard Oct 23 '14 at 21:39

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added by Frosteeze Oct 17 '14 at 23:02

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added by rath Oct 15 '14 at 16:46

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added by Ooker, edited by Flimzy Oct 10 '14 at 13:39

I am guessing this question is not asking about the speech of female who is not bathed. Which makes it way to broad for an answer. "dirty' is subjective and 'embarrassed' is difficult to assess empirically. – James Jenkins Oct 11 '14 at 9:09

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added by Shadow Wizard, edited by Flimzy Oct 10 '14 at 13:38

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added by Leo King Sep 18 '14 at 23:38

This is googlable to an extent, but also variable. People might "not be able to perform" for other reasons than one of the bullet points on the NHS website. – Leo King Sep 18 '14 at 23:40

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added by Leo King Sep 18 '14 at 23:35

closed as not constructive by Flimzy, Shadow Wizard, Krumia, DroidDev, Matthew Haugen Oct 11 '14 at 21:31

This question is not a good fit to our Q&A format. We expect answers to generally involve facts, references, or specific expertise; this question will likely solicit opinion, debate, arguments, polling, or extended discussion.

According to whom? – Flimzy Oct 10 '14 at 13:38